“I feel like a part of my soul has loved you since the beginning of everything. Maybe we’re from the same star.” ― Emery Allen.

Most times, the person you spend the rest of your life with is not always who you expected. We usually have these images in our heads of who we want and how they’ll act. How romantic and sweet they’ll be. We create this perfect person in our heads, so much that we’re shocked when our soulmate comes along.

Your forever person is that special person who completes you and makes you feel whole. The person you feel like you should have been with from the day you were born. That’s right. You hate that you’re only just meeting them and you didn’t get to spend every waking moment together. The person who makes you describe your life as “amazing”.

Your true self will emerge

Being with the one who was meant for you will make you burst forth from your shell. This person will never fail to encourage and inspire you. They’ll always be a guiding light and a motivating voice. You’ll find yourself not hiding behind any obstacles or cowering away from your dreams. Why would that happen, when you have someone willing to hold your hand every step of the way?

Happiness becomes an everyday assurance

You don’t have to expect the worst from life anymore. You only wake up knowing that today is going to be a happy one. Sure, arguments may arise and conflicts may occur. But you know that your soulmate will never want you two to end the day on bad terms. You won’t be forced to endure any more emotional pain and cry yourself to sleep. Your forever person loves you, and any pain you ever have to deal with hurts them too.

Insecurities are laid to rest

Your true love won’t make you feel bad about yourself. The case is quite the opposite. Your forever person is the one who doesn’t make you worry when they’re not prompt to reply to your texts. You don’t have to snoop through their phone because they’ll never try to hurt you. They love the way you are and don’t make subtle or obvious comparisons between you and anyone else.

It’s amazing how refreshing it can be to love a person who truly loves you [1]. You don’t have to try excessively hard to make things work. The relationship will flow naturally. Your true love puts in as much effort as you do. You’ll never feel underappreciated because they’ll always tell how special you are. You’ll find yourself smiling more, laughing more, and letting go of any unpleasant memories from your past relationships.

Communication is an exciting breeze

It’s easy for you to talk to this person. With them, you don’t have to hide any details or sugarcoat any parts of your story. You keep it completely real and tell it as it is. Your forever person will listen to you at all times and cuddle you when you need it. No matter how busy they are, they’ll always find a way to be there for you.

They can see through your shield and know when you’re hiding something. They know when you’re upset and this makes them upset too. They want to be an integral part of your life. Your forever person will respect your necessary boundaries as a person, but they’ll want in on everything else. They are eager to make you happy and take all your sorrows away.

Your forever person never fails to let you know how much they want to be with you forever.

References:

  1. “This Is What It Feels Like To Finally Be With Your ‘Forever Person’”, Awareness Act
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